Friday, June 19, 2009

ShaRing is CaRiNg

Petikan ini di ambil dr email yg dihantar oleh Opismate aku.. menarik utk dikongsi bersame2..
FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is Broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to Suspicion, Suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in Separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She Answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cutOff the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got The number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it Is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the Telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
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NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful Marriage. Could you please share with me our secret?" The father-in-law Answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or When she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her Shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than You."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid Of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look Around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a War. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the Other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and Requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable One."
The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, Humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to Accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go Out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for Conversation and be silent when I want to rest."
The officer listened Carefully and Replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a Perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, Because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf Husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife.
Many couples are blind and Deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship.Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and Discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

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NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or Demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all And their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this Is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that"It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's Character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the Spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.

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RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will Either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of Wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always Forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering If It would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A Worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the Way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You Should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the Millionaire And not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad Relationship.

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PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be Another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way Home, A boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked Besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the Head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is On foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husbandride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on theirshoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.

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BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ranto his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boywoke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers goingto grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wishto take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognise the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions wetake while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all. If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

A gift 4 You my Sweet HearT

si comel nie Ms Alin bg kat Mr Takin...

si botak ijau nie Mr Takin bagi kt Ms Alin..

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Cuti Cuti Sempena Cuti Sekolah

Sempena cuti sekolah yg lepas, aku pon xmelepaskn ler peluang utk bercuti jugak..hehe ye la mase org ramai cuti la kite pon ikot skali cuti..balik kg ramai2 baru la best..cam balik raye pulak..dan mak pon bile dh ramai org kt rumah tu..ada la buat kenduri kecik skit..biase la meraikan anak cucu balik kg.
sebelom balik kg tu..aku sempat ler buat tour dgn opismate ke kenduri2 kawen opismate jugak..kt perak tu..singgah bermlm di penang (bayan baru)..ade 3 kenduri semuanya..best woo makan nasik minyak..n dpt goodies ler tu lagi satu part yg best..so aku telah melambakkan ler atas meja dgn bende2 tu..hehehe..

Friday, June 5, 2009

LaBis LerEh..

labislereh.blogspot.com nama blog nie adelah sempena nama kg Ms Alin-d (Labis) dan Mr Takin (Lereh)..itu le sbbnye aku letak nama blog nie...aku sekadar nak share citer2 selepas perkenalan aku dgn Mr Takin..dgn sesiapa saje yg sudi membace blog nie..org kate mase bercinta nie mmg indah-indah belaka..semuanya berbunga-bunga laa..kire rase cam ade rama-rama berterbangan dalam hati..ade juga yg berpendapat mase bercinta nie..kite tak tunjuk perangai sebenar kat pasangan kite..
Tapi pada aku pulak..aku rase lebih baik menjadi diri sendiri..buat ape kite nak sorok2 kan perangai sebenar kite pade org yang kite syg kan..sbb aku nak dia terima aku seadanya aku..bkn sbb aku berlakon menjadi org lain..plastik lak nnti..tak natural...
Kakak2 kt opis nie pon mengingatkan perkara yg sama jugak..dia kate org lelaki nie..kite takleh nak kenal perangai dia selagi kite tak duk sekali dgn dia..maksudnye bile dah kawen nnti perangai dorang akan berubah la tak seperti yg kite bygkan mase bercinte tu..itu mgkin dari pengalaman2 dorg dlm hidup bersama laki dorang kot..hehehe so takleh la nak menyangkal ape yg dorg cakap kan..:)
Aku berharap la Mr Takin takde la camtu pulak yer..tapi ye la kan..bile dah duk sekali tu (dah kawen) kite akan lebih kenal pasangan kite..
Dan perkahwinan tu kan umpama satu sesi persekolahan..btul tak Mr Takin?
Dalam proses kenal mengenal tu banyak perkara yang perlu kite belajar dan kite akan lebih menjadi dewasa, dan menjadi insan yg lebih matang dlm membuat keputusan..satu sesi persekolahan yang akan kite tempuhi sepanjang hidup kite..tp jgn pulak jemu dgn skolah tu..sbb kite sendiri yang akan mencorakkan suasana skolah itu dan juga silibus yg perlu dipelajari..

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

RiNdu..serindu rinDunya...

Rindu aku rindu kamu

Kelap-kelip di tengah-tengah laut
Lampu perahu nelayan
Sembilan ribu bintang
Sempurna bentuk bulan..perhiasan malam

Batang-batang panjang pohon kelapa
Kerang-kerang di pasir putih
Diantara mereka kita duduk berdua...
menyanyikan lagu cinta

Ya owh oo.. asyiknya menikmati malam
Indah pantai indah laut suasana sunyi
Ya owh oo.. asyiknya menghabiskan malam
Rindu aku rindu kamu jadi satu

Ketika tiba-tiba ombak di laut pasang
Cinta kita berdua juga pasang, sayang
Ketika tiba-tiba ombak di laut surut
Cinta kita berdua tetap… pasang

*miss him so much....

Monday, June 1, 2009

Cool DaY...ke COLd day???

Pagi2 je datang opis terus gi beli brekfes ler..lapo giler..arini makan nasik goreng..teh tarik satu..bungkus yer..xde membe la nk makan so tapau makan kt opis je la..pastu first skali nak cek cuti dah approve lom..Alhamdulillah dah approve gak..8-10 jun..balik kampung hohoho balik kampung..seronoknye..sbb ramai gak dah pakat2 nak balik kampung nie..maklum ler cuti skolah kan..Chik balik, Dedek balik, De pon kate nak balik gak..aku dah beli tiket awl2 lagi haritu sbb takut gak kang takde tiket..beli sekali utk Chik dgn anak2nye..tapi sekali tu rase cam nak ikut lak dak opis aku nie ke Perak..ade 3 kenduri kawen opismate..errmmm kene la burn satu tiket..rugi rugi...nnti la tanye makcik kaunter tiket tu leh tak nak jual balik..
Hari nie kesejukan melampau kat Opis..huhuhu pastu ujan lak tu..dah ler macam duk dalam akuarium nie..ade rase2 cam ikan lak...cane ler nak balik kalo still ujan lagi..payung ade tp kalo ujan2 nak jalan kaki..rasenye basah gak ler..kene ler naik lrt nmpk gaye nye..

Playgirl ke?

Ermmm Mr Takin suh Ms Alin-d bg elaboration skit pasal nie..tu la ape pasal tulis camtu kan dh kene balik dh..kuikuikui..nak bgtau ler Ms Alin-d bukan la playgirl...cume ade ramai kawan je..kenalan biase jer..bkn teman tapi mesra pon..ye la sblom kenal Mr Takin..aku mana ade bf slps terkecewa dgn my-ex..jadinye kawan je la dgn sape2 pon..kenal je la dgn sape2 pon..kuar je la dgn sape2 yg bole dipercayai utk kuar..tu yg nmpk cam byk kawan laki..tp semua tu sekadar kenalan biase jer...sbb bkn senang gak nak amek ati Ms Alin-d nie..muahahaha ye la kan Ms Alin-d nie memilih orgnye..kuikuikui..tapi utk Mr Takin...Ms Alin-d membuka ruang hati seluas-luasnya utk dia..hanya dia di hati..dan Ms Alin-d pon berharap hanya Ms Alin-d sahaja di hati Mr Takin... :)

Lama Giler Tak Menulis

Alhamdulillah masih bernafas di bumi Allah yang satu ini. Cume tak rajin dah nak menulis bagai dulu2...nak kate sibuk sangat kalah menteri ...